Different Loving

In order to understand unusual sexualities such as Dominance and submission, one first have to consider the question, -"What is normal?"

-The world of Dominance and submission-


A new Chattel for Mistress Leah


This was an amazing year for Me, I acquired my own dungeon and it's growing day by day, new boys come and go but I focus my attention on those who truly enjoy servitude, and embrace female power; I have a new boy who is working so hard and I can honestly say has earned my trust and recognition as my true only personal boy; here is the story.


@Subtopper came to Me as an experienced BDSM switch who has been in the scene for at least 20 years, although he has been out the scene for a while; his first email was incredibly professional and well formulated; this of course is always a great way to not go on the eliminated pile ( when I choose my play partners it always starts with the way you approach to Me in your email), Our first encounter was amazing he is so incredibly respectful and willing to try anything I desire.

He was sure to let Me know that although he has taken a break from the lifestyle for a while he was wiling to be reconditioned to my likes...

This of course is always bliss to my ears.....

During our first session we were both learning about each other; I start him off with OKS which he responded very well to...

I then proceed to test him with flogging and single tail whipping, he squirmed and moved so I secure him to the cross with some rope, I could tell how much he loved the tip of my whip kissing his skin so I proceed it...





Power Exchange and Erotic excitement.....


Power - it uses and abuses- , to most people power is a political, economic or social status which often entails the assertion of superiority over others for personal or group gain, perhaps for personal satisfaction. But for the D&Ser, the power exchange is a fundamental source of erotic excitement, and enjoyed equally by both the Dominant and the submissive.......



Erotic Coersion


Coersion tipically means the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats, for BDSMers it means the mutual acceptance of erotic exchange.


Painful Beginnings....


I have realized that for @subtopper as well as many other submissives, receiving pain sexually stimulates them to the point of orgasm, this is also true for Dominants (specially sadist like Me).